Here's what I eventually realized; the more that I rested, dodged work, put off my goals, ate garbage to numb the pain, and gave into my erratic emotional reactions - the more miserable and depressed I became. I used the Instagram account to announce my shortcomings to the world, to put my true self out there for everyone to see, and to call myself out when I was acting selfishly. I would finally be HONEST about my actions. That was a huge step in the right direction. I began to connect with other fathers that had the same shortcomings - other men who gave me encouragement and strength.
At the same time, I reached out to coaches and gurus, read books, and listened to podcasts. As I practiced, I became better and I began to differentiate, very clearly, the weak voice in my head from my true voice (my conscience). Once I really tapped into that true voice, my personal progress in every aspect of life began to skyrocket.
No more excuses. No more lying to myself. I began taking full responsibility by taking massive action in the things that mattered most in my life - every minute of every day. I embraced struggle and stress. I accepted my fate and I learned to be grateful for inconvenience and chaos. In doing so, I found myself and a fire was lit inside me.
As I became a better man, I became a better father, a better husband, a better friend, better at creating, better at business... better at life. As I leveled up, so did my wife. So did my kids. So did many others who I've come into contact with. I soon realized, that I have way more impact on the world around me than I ever imagined possible.
I am a fireman by trade and eventually I began to get approached by fellow firemen who were in darkness and needing guidance, fitness, and to find themselves again. Thus began a relentless pursuit to serve my brothers in the firehouse and exemplify the disciplined life for them.
Then dozens of men outside of work reached out to me asking for that same help and guidance. They were trying to tap in but did not know where to start. They wanted deep meaningful relationships with their kids, and to be more kind and loving with their wife. They wanted to get lean and athletic and to create their best self for their people. These men wanted to light their life on fire like I had, and so, SUPER HUMAN FATHERS was born. It started out with 20 men, then grew to 50, then 100 then 250 and now, we have our sights set on having saved 1,000 men before the end of the year. This has become a brotherhood - a group of men holding each other accountable to live the no excuses, nonnegotiable life.
I have found a home here with these men. A team. A family. And now, here you are. Maybe you have a temper, maybe you are dealing with severe anxiety and depression, maybe you lack motivation and the energy to attack life like you used to... Let me tell you this; when you live every day with decisions and reactions that are in line with your conscience, as I have, you earn a power and authority over your life that will blow your mind. Others will feel this power when you are in their presence. They will want to be better just by being around you. You will become an absolute force of positivity and energy. Your body will transform into your true self and you will look in the mirror and see a warrior with a resilient body and mind.
You will never be dissatisfied with or ashamed of what you see in the mirror ever again!
JUST LOOK AT OUR TRANSFORMATIONS!
Our physical transformations are world-class. Now what you can’t see in those "before and after" pictures are the minds and spirits of these elite men that live the SUPER HUMAN FATHERS way. What is our secret? Where the mind and spirit go, the body will follow.
This is not your standard fitness program.
This is a complete life transformation. Mind, body, and spirit.
At Super Human Fathers, we live to be the best that we can be for the people we love the most and for the thousands of people who we know we will inspire.